I have met so many who fall in love with those who don't want them, will wait on those people despite how they are treated, and cringe at the ones who practically worship them. To justify our actions, we make excuses like "he's too tall, too short, too nice; he’s corny; I don't like the way he chews or moves his pinky toe when he sings..."
We ALL have flaws.
Why do many harbor over the ones who would not give them the time or day and sell their souls for those who could care less? Have you asked yourself?
Where do we get this mode of thinking? Who told us to subscribe to this behavior? Perhaps, we learned this from watching unhealthy relationships. Did this begin in the womb with how our mothers felt about themselves? Is this the result of the relationships or lack thereof with a father or mother? Could this come from the way we feel about ourselves?
If no one has told you, YOU DON'T HAVE TO CHASE LOVE! When you do, it runs . Perhaps, what you are chasing is what's missing in you.
Start there.
Then, HEALTHY love will find you.
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